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[littlesilvered]

So, I have a moral dilemma.

A pup is coming up on it's three month mark of no activity in TR. Two of my pups are involved with this pup. I doubt the mun of said pup even pays attention to the game unless I point it out.

Do I:

A) Tell the mun, with the chance that they'd finally do a log...but then disappear for three months again, which is what will probably happen, or

B) Not say anything and let the pup get purged, which I know I'd prefer. I can't keep my own pups hanging like this forever.

I realize many of you think there is a C) of possibly asking the person to just drop out of TR, but I don't honestly see that happening. They let their own game die of inactivity and didn't even care.

I feel bad even contemplating this. But I am and I have to for two of my pups' sakes.

Comments

[frogmajick.livejournal.com]

It's not your responsibility to police another person's play. Unless you know there has been some real life problems that have kept them from playing (which we all have from time to time and in that case it's nice to have someone who is understanding) I'd say that it's between said mun and the mods. You can then deal in game with a disappearance which has got to be easier than trying to handwave 90 days of daily life.

[misspeacock.livejournal.com]

Well, I guess the question for me is, do you want their behavior to change? 'cause I'm of the strong opinion that if someone's doing something annoying/frustrating/whatever, and you want it to stop, you should do something about it. But if you don't really care, then you don't really care.

I dunno, if it were me, I would probably tell them. But I don't necessarily have a problem with a couple months of inactivity, so that's just me. It would depend on the circumstances.

[paranoidangel]

Is it worth asking them if they're still interested? And point out that you want to thread with them, but more than once every three months.